The prime example of this is Hugh Hefner. He is now 86 years old and always has multiple women that he is in meaningful (and by that I mean sexual) relationship's with. All of these women are also many generations younger than him. The picture at the right is the batch of women that he had when I first came know good ole Hef. Now I am not opposed to age differences in relationships because I have been in a relationship with my hubby who is 28 years older than I. We have children and it has been working for the past 6 years so I know that though large age differences in relationships is often frowned upon in our society it really is all up to the individuals to make it work. But I think it's more of a gross factor unless we are dealing with a child and adult and that is unacceptable. If both people in the relationship are of age to consent to such a relationship than I don't think our society pays to much attention to the relationship. I think our society's attention is peaked when one person has multiple meaningful relationships at the same time. Our society frowns upon the person having more than one partner at a time. Course that never stopped good ole Hef either. He doesn't appear to have a care in the world what people think of him however many people have shared their opinion. I just can't imagine how these relationship works and how there never appear to be any fighting amongst his girls. I also don't understand why these women would subject themselves to such a relationship. Do they need more self esteem? More confidence in themselves? Do they have a missing daddy issue? I just don't understand what these women are thinking to think that they need to subject themselves to this kind of a relationship unless perhaps they are just doing it for there 15 minutes of fame.
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